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Juan Fernando
Argudello is proof that our spirit will always be stronger than our body.
Many mothers say that
the first thing they do when they give birth to their child is to count the
fingers and toes of their child. However, Dora Herrera's son, whom she named
Juan, did not have fingers nor toes, since all of his extremities were missing.
The doctors at the
hospital told Dora that she did not have to take her son home if she did not
want to. She could leave him
abandoned at the Hospital, where they would "experiment" on him and
eventually send him to live in an orphanage.
However, this was not to be considered by Dora.
This was her son, she had carried him for nine months and she was
determined to give him every opportunity she could to make it in life.
She knew that her son could make it.
Juan Fernando is now
12 years old. Despite his
limitations, he is a happy, go lucky child, who never allows anyone to pity him
or look at him strangely. He never
complains about his condition, he writes, draws, dances, jumps, plays soccer and
does everything that a "normal"
child his age does. Things which
seemed impossible when he was born those 12 years ago come naturally to him now.
Juan lives with his
mother, grandmother and his little brother, Sergio.
Theirs is a close knit, supportive family that have searched everywhere
for Juan's medical treatment.
Juan's paternal
grandmother lives in
New Haven
,
Connecticut
, and she found Healing the Children
Northeast, also in
Connecticut
. She
contacted the HTC office and
requested help for Juan. Mary
Tracy and Beth Ruscoe began the arduous search to get Juan his medical
care. They went to the Connecticut
Children's
Medical
Center
who agreed to evaluate Juan and see if prostheses could be fitted on his
limbs.
Juan arrived in the
U.S.
two months ago and immediately went to
the CCMC. While doctors were very
optimistic about Juan's ability to be fitted with the prosthetic limbs, they
realized that it was not going to be an easy thing to do.
Juan needed some surgeries on his limbs in order for the prosthetic
devices to fit properly.
Healing the Children
secured the prosthetic devises for Juan free of charge from Hangar
Prosthetics and Orthotics, Inc. All
of the physicians involved in Juan's care also provided their services free
of charge. However, the hospital
needs to be reimbursed for the amount of time he will spend in-house. This cost
is $15,000. HTC and Juan's family
are searching everywhere for a donor who will provide these funds.
It would be a
wonderful Christmas gift for Juan if he were to receive his prosthetics this
year.
Although in his
hometown of
Medellin
,
Colombia
, most people do not know him; his case
has been on many television programs and in many newspapers.
Juan has even met the
players of the local soccer team -Atletico Nacional.
He and his brother were given autographed balls by the team.
Juan has become a hero in his neighborhood, as the team visited him at
his home.
I t is now
9:30 p.m.
in Dora's home.
Juan interrupts his mother who is on the phone: "Mom,
aren't you going to help me with my homework?" "Hold
on Juan, wait a second, I am busy."
Quietly Juan gets his
bag, takes out his notebook and with his stumps he grabs a pencil, which he
accommodates well under his chin, ready to do the homework.
His mother finishes
her conversation and prepares to help her son, who does not need any extra
motivation to study, he loves school. As
he puts it, "they love me there."
They both get busy
and Juan looks at his mother and says, "Mami, why don't I have legs and
arms?"
"Do you want to
hear the story?” says his mother.
"Yes,"
replies Juan. Dora goes on to tell
the following:
"Before you were
born, God was delivering babies to all the moms, who saw you and wanted you.
They were all fighting for you. But
I begged God to give me you, I wanted this gift.
I wanted to be your mom. However,
God told me no, because you were a very special child and he could not give you
to just anyone. To be your mother I
would have to love you and take very good care of you because you did not have
arms and legs. YOU
needed a lot of attention," He said.
He asked me, "Can you
give this special child all the love he deserves?"
I said yes and begged and begged until He finally gave in and gave me the
biggest prize in the world: YOU!"
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